SuprAffs: Dating
SuprAffs: Dating
I LIKE it when I remind myself daily that I have committed myself to dating until I find what I want.
I LIKE it when I do not make commitments or become sexual early in a dating relationship.
I LIKE asking close friends for feedback to see if I am being "realistic" about a new dating relationship.
I LIKE having a daily commitment to looking my best and working at being healthy. (Studies show this increases my chances for dating success dramatically).
I LIKE keeping the focus on the other person and asking lots of questions in a new dating relationship.
I LIKE having a written list of exactly what I am looking for in a potential mate and finding if they have them as quickly as possible.
I LIKE taking frequent breaks from dating to take care of myself and "recharge my batteries".
I LIKE taking the time to review my goals for dating by asking myself where do I want to be in a year or two.
I LIKE to remind myself daily that frequent dating increases my chances of finding life long friendship even if platonic.
I LIKE it when I keep am able to keep my conversations fairly lighthearted and humerous during first dates.
I LIKE dating more than one person at a time rather than getting involved in "serial monogamy" and wasting valuable time.
I LIKE reminding myself daily to relax and be myself when dating.
I LIKE being proactive and making it a point to fre-quently ask for dates.
I LIKE making an attempt to have conversations with nice people I meet in social settings.
I LIKE networking, joining groups, clubs, activities that increase my chance of meeting potential daters.
I LIKE avoiding the habit of only going to the same places and meeting the same people all the time.
I LIKE asking others frequently; "do you know someone whom I might enjoy meeting"? (I want friends and family to know I'm serious about finding someone).
I LIKE reminding myself that even if hurt by a prior relationship I need to allow further disappointment until I succeed.
I LIKE reminding myself that even if a new relationship does not lead to partnership it may still be an opportunity to make a new friend for life.
I LIKE reminding myself that people are humans first and sexual beings second.
I LIKE working on continually growing and developing in all areas of life. (This will continually expand my opportunities for for finding the right mate).
I LIKE having the attitude that even if I don't find a mate I'm going to have a joyfull, loving happy and fulfilling life never the less!
Choose from the following list according to that which you find believable and best fits your situation. Read or repeat out loud the SuprAffs (not the part in parenthesis) three (3) times a day (preferably morning, noon and night) until your new habits are firmly established. The latest studies show the average time for changing habits is around 66 days but everyone is different and you will probably see partial results right away.
To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
-Oscar Wilde
But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.
-from Dead Poet's Society.
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